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How to be a FemDom – Making Money Online as a Female Dominatrix

SO YOU WANT TO BE A FEMDOM

The most common question I get from other models is “How to be a Femdom” and “where can I get started in the fetish clip industry?”. To start, the term FemDom is short for Female Domination. This is fetish with many, many layers and most guys have a very particular way of enjoy their FemDom kink. You might think that all you have to do is open a twitter account, throw up a few pictures of you with your middle finger, and telling men they’re stupid so they should pay you. ERRRRRRRRRRRR. Don’t do that. It’s going to be very frustrating for you and the little (if any) money you make will NOT be the worth the hours you put in dealing with scammers.

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STEP ONE: WHAT KIND OF FEMDOM DO YOU WANT TO BE?

First things first…. Do you want to do in-person sessions? If the answer is Yes – I can’t really help you. I rarely – if ever – do in-person sessions. If the answer is No – then keep reading. I’m going to give you a very basic breakdown on what you need to do to start your FemDom online business.

STEP TWO: Pick a name, open accounts, and begin branding

Still wanna be a FemDom? Alright so pick a name. I chose mine on a whim and it just stuck. I was going through my hippie LSD phase in my early twenties and well… Here I am, Lucy Skye! Once you do that, open a seperate email address, twitter account, and store accounts. MAKE SURE YOU DON’T CONNECT ANY OF YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION WITH YOUR FEMDOM INFORMATION. 

Store accounts – Okay so this is where you are actually going to make your money and sell your content. I HIGHLY suggest you start off with Niteflirt. You can see my reviews here. This is a reputable website that has been around for a LONG time and offers Live Phone Sex. Dont worry – You can still do FemDom on there. When you sign up, you’ll have to make your “listings” and you can choose categories for it.

I know, I know… Live phone is weird at first and sooo awkward. But whatever… Get through it, TRUST ME. I can make $300-500 A DAY on there. HELLO!!!! Go sign up! Here’s my affiliate link for them: https://www.niteflirt.com/pid/24818573

So the next store I recommend for you becoming a FemDom and making money with your kinkiness – Is Clips4Sale! This was the first site that I started selling fetish clips – I did basic hand fetish before hopping into Female Domination. After 3 months of creating fetish clips and selling them on Clips4Sale, I was averaging ~$1200 per month just on that site and that kept growing every month. I do VERY well on Clips4sale nowadays.

The other stores I recommend are iWantClips.com This site really is amazing. They’re newer than the other two sites but man, once I started being consistent on there – whew I BANK. Some of my highest payouts are on iWantClips. It helps that they offer live phone as well (They mainly ONLY do FemDom on live phone, although I suppose you could do whatever you want) and also their custom video payout is 100%!!!! They make money by charging extra fees on the client, but hey, more money for you!

STEP THREE: BE CONSISTENT AND STOP MAKING EXCUSES

Okay so this is really going to be the BIGGEST thing that makes or breaks you. Being a FemDom is fun and lucrative but you need to keep something in mind – YOUR INCOME IS DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL TO THE AMOUNT OF EFFORT YOU PUT IN. Educate yourself, do research, read erotic stories, work on your website, learn how to do basic web design, learn how to talk to clients and sell effectively, learn how to manage your money, learn how to edit videos, learn how to use your fancy camera, etc etc etc.

I dont consider myself an educator for models but I will give out advice from time to time – and do you want to know the biggest mistake I see from girls who aren’t making enough money? Consistency. You can’t work your ass off for 1 week and then take 2 weeks off lol. Build a schedule, develop an effective routine, and CONTINUOUSLY try to better yourself as a Female Dominatrix.